How To Parent Properly In 5 Ways:

This article is not anything negative about parents but the things people should understand about parenting.

1.ACT UPON WHAT YOU TEACH:
In this present era parents are not giving attention properly to their kids and to their own way of parenting.Mostly parents do not obey themselves what they want their children to.A kid can never act upon an order given by his parents until he sees their parents or guardian doing the same.Children follow what they see their parents doing,for example if a parent wants his kid to offer namaz,recite Quran or obey islamic teachings but he does not obey himself then his kid would not do it as well.For parenting your children you first have to act upon what you want your children to.

2.DO NOT INSULT YOUR CHILD INFRONT OF ANYONE:
The second most important thing for parents to understand is that you are failing at parenting if you insult your child infront of anyone and do not care about their self-respect.Kids these days are getting spoilt by this insulting action.If you think being a parent it is your right to insult your child anywhere then im writing it again that you are failing at it.Kids whom get insulted constantly this way,become obstinate and feel no shame to insult their parents the same way.

3.DON'T BE ABUSIVE AND LOUD AT YOUR CHILD:
Parents seriously need to understand that being abusive to their children is making their children spoilt.Kids pick up these hobbies of abusing and use them with others or in some cases children later use abusive language even with their parents.Secondly being loud makes your kid psychologically weak and disturbed,kids then start getting angry and mad at trifling things.

4.SHOW LOVE TO YOUR CHILD:
Parents who don't show much love to their kids just because it is not necessary,do not receive any affection from their children.Being a formal parent often makes a kid shy and less confident.Children who do not receive emotional affection from parents,are emotionally shy to express their parents love.

5.CREATE A SENSE OF SELF-CONFIDENCE IN YOUR CHILD:
Parents should always support their child in appropriate activities like sports and school activities etc.Parents who forbid their kids from these sort of interests ,make their kids mentally and physically weak.This prevents children from being confident and this lack of confidence destroys kids mentally.