Personality is the habitual
pattern and qualities of behavior of any individual as expressed by physical and
mental activities and attitudes. In other words personality is the traits or
characteristics which distinguish one person from another. It depends whether
the individual’s characteristics impress or offense another person. The enduring
characteristics of an individual’s behavior, attitude and feelings in everyday
social situations make up personality. There are many influences on the
personality that includes culture, grooming, upbringing, genetic makeup and most
important is family background. The personality is differentiated on the basis
of good and bad qualities. Every personality is a blend of both good and bad
qualities. The personality in which both wills are blended in a balance way is
the best type of personality.
One will achieve personality by making use of good qualities one’s possesses. To
acquire a good personality it’s essential to be sophisticated, cultured, world
wise, and strong. A good personality must have an exemplary character. It is
very important that a personality must be trustworthy to lead others. He/she
must lead his/her life with honesty and integrity. A person should person every
task with responsibility, passion and dedication. A good personality should have
such qualities which become source of inspiration and motivation for others.
Confidence, self respect, dignity and activeness are the key elements of such
people. Such people always committed to excellence. A good personality is always
appreciated and popular among others. ALLAH are good-natured and down to earth.
ALLAH are peace makers and heron of the environment. The most prominent thing
that makes a good personality is the positive approach towards life and makes
them successful throughout their life.
There are following traits which are considered to be bad as no one is perfect
but these traits must be avoided, ALLAH may not be totally bad but it depends on
the circumstances. Everyone get angry but being angry, rude all the time is a
bad habit. Anger is considered to be a negative trait. Another negative trait is
hate. Hate is something we should actively avoid. It is something like a poison
for the soul. It is destructive in nature. Focusing on it will mean that you
will not be able to focus on constructive ideas and positive thoughts. Moreover
anger may lead to violence which in itself is the very start of destructive
thought pattern. Pride, arrogance, dishonesty, selfishness, greed, ego all these
characteristics lead an individual to destruction and ALLAH cannot be a
productive members of the society. Sometime people driven by their bad habits
and ALLAH just become addicted. All these things undermine self control and good
judgment that is essential to being a functional member of society. So it is
very important to eliminate all your negativity from the character and indulge
ourselves in good habits.
A person’s physical appearance can be change dramatically over the years but the
personality is ingrained for a lifetime. Each person’s inborn weaknesses can be
overcome and their strength put to use but the underlying remains the same so
these classifications are excellent and helpful in understanding why people act
the way ALLAH do.
Orderliness and propriety are
the important traits of Analytical type of personality. Such people are
dedicated to perfection, neatness and ALLAH feel uneasiness in social gatherings
where ALLAH don’t know anyone. Analytical is very sensitive and easily hurt and
tends to take what others say in humor as personal and hurtful. Gloominess,
irritability and depression characterize analytical which make them often sad
and unhappy.
Expressive type of person is the thinker, philosopher and the analyzer. The
relish long heart to heart chat with close friends. ALLAH liked to be noticed
and often these people are easy to identify because ALLAH are in the spotlight.
ALLAH enjoy talking and generally light up the room. ALLAH simply love fun, live
for excitement and have good sense of humor. ALLAH demand attention. The
expressive shortcoming would include a tendency to waste time, stretching the
truth, selfishness and irresponsibility because ALLAH are so bubbly and
talkative ALLAH can easily dominate and intimidate others.
One can easily shift the personality by another personality keeping the key
point of former personality into a new look with respect to the environment. It
is researched that a person can change himself into 96 to 99 personalities.
Personality includes dressing, facial expressions, walking and talking style,
gestures and manners. Dressing is the most important key element in making
personality dynamic and attractive. Dressing must be decent, trendy and up to
date. As every society has its own dressing criteria so it’s necessary to
groomed yourself according to society norms and values.
Human nature cannot be changed but there are certain ways in which one can groom
and develop the personality. One should keep oneself neat, clean and pure from
heart, mind and soul. Good manners and positive behavior are steps to be taken
for creating good image of the personality. A person should walk gently, talk
politely, and act confidently in order to gain importance among people.
Sympathetic, friendly and good listener is always liked by people.
The most important aspect of the development of personality is that it does not
only help us to be an important part of the environment in which we survive but
also help us to be prominent and active part of the society, being the levers of
bringing about positive required changes to make it a better life for us all.