Unique gift of siblings

(Komal Ishtiaq, Rawalpindi)

Apart from parents, we are bestowed with one of another gift in this world. This gift is unique and heavenly; the relation between you and your siblings. No matter siblings are younger or elder; sister or brother, all of them have great contribution in making your life blissful. Theses siblings are just like different spices in your life that adds taste and charm to your life. Let me introduce you with a different types of siblings. Later, you can decide by yourself that your siblings fit in what category according to this criteria. But, remember whatever criteria they belong to they are unique and love you. So, do acknowledge their existence in your life.

Bossy siblings
It is a special kind of siblings whom you might find irritating and annoying, as they are always in a habit of commanding other siblings. These siblings behave as authoritative above other siblings and always tried their best to suppress other siblings. They might be brother, sister or they might be younger or elder. It is in their nature because they are attention oriented siblings who always seek attention from their siblings and they consider it best to impose themselves on other siblings, which make them the center of their house because of their bossy nature. But, the fact is whether they are commanding or having their hold over you, still they love you and own you and make their every possible effort to protect you. They have their unique style of showing their love to you. So, do not feel bad about them but try to understand their position and nature, but instead try to find a best possible solution to deal with them in a most respected way.

Best- friend like siblings
It is a kind of siblings whom you consider as far more important than your friends and other family members because they always understand you. These are the siblings who are friendly and understanding. Their behavior is more like a friend than a sibling with whom you feel more comfortable. With them, you share your ideas, experiences, the things that irritate you. You find these siblings as your psychologist to whom you seek advice or even if they do not give any advice to you, still they listen you for longer hours until you pour out all your frustration. For instance, when you share any bad experience with them or you get low scores in test, they always cheer you, divert your thoughts and provide you better solutions to deal with the problems. So, these are siblings whom we love to talk.

Siblings who always borrow your stuff
It is very interesting kind of siblings, they love to borrow your stuff. No matter, how much pretty their own stuff is but they still love to borrow your clothes, shoes and other accessories. Sometimes, they do not even bother to borrow your stuff they get into your wardrobe and simply put it. It may frustrates you, but it is another way of getting attach and closer to your siblings. Cherish it when they take your stuff, no matter if you pretend to be frustrated but admire it that they love to wear your things.

Loving and caring siblings
These are like parental figures on earth. If, you have them, you are the luckiest one. They always care for us. They always keep their check on you. If we need something, they always provide us. They sacrifice their own good things just to make us happy. They wanted us the best of the best; therefore they are like second parents on earth.

Moody siblings
It is a type of siblings who function according to their mood. If, they do anything for their sibling it entirely depends on their mood. For instance, when other siblings ask them to help them in home tasks or any other assignments they refused it. But, occasionally they contributed a lot in home tasks, even nobody told them to do so. These kinds of siblings are very complex in nature.

Supportive siblings
These are those siblings who act like our back. They give us every possible support we need. Either it is our subject selection, our grades, our interest or to helps in taking permission from father for hanging out with friends or going to some trip arranged by school, college etc. They act as our defensive shields. No matter, whatever kind of support is required, they are willing to give it. The kind of support might be economical, moral or any other.

Sensitive siblings
They always get upset on little things and take it directly to heart. They do not want to hear any bad from their siblings about them. They always like it when their siblings appreciate them, give them good remarks. But, get disappointed when their sibling scold them or do not give their favor to them. If, their other sibling forget their birthday or any special occasion of them, they feel dejected and started to undervalue them. In, short they are very sensitive.

Least expressive siblings
These are the special kind who cares for you but when it comes to express their sentiments and emotions, they failed it. They are least expressive. They are kind of reluctant and hesitant in showing any expression and sentiment. They did everything in hidden for their siblings without taking it into their acknowledgement.
These all above mentioned siblings have unique traits and are kind of interesting. You might have these type of siblings or there is an amalgamation of these categories in your sibling. In whatever, form they are available to you, do, acknowledge their existence as unique gift to you because after your parents their love is valuable enough and priceless.

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