Battles Every Woman Must Overcome in Her Life

(Faisal Sheikh , Lahore)

In this modern world of technology, fatihlessnes and broken dreams, women have to face many battles from the day they are born and arrive on this planet. A mind of a woman is like a sea, that holds many secrets and heartaches. Whether it is a battle against the breast cancer, or giving birth to children, or facing the harsh circumstances at the workplace, 21st century woman has to face challenges on a daily basis. A magnificent woman is the one who emerges out of these difficulties with a stronger faith. As soon as the day starts, getting up brings many problems for women to test their character.

Journey From a Girl Towards Womanhood
The cute little baby girl has to live her life as soon as her school starts. Becoming successful in her school education is a challenge for every girl, not many girls could achieve high grades and some even drop out of school for not focusing on their studies. Girls are baby dolls, they have tender bodies and soft hearts. They are compassionate and energetic in nature. From the early age, they dream about their life, partner, their kids, their career and what lies ahead in the future.
In the quest to make life meaningful, some girls have to fight addictions like drugs, alcohol or even sex addiction. Their role models are mostly mom and dad who raise them and teach them good moral values. When she grows up, her body experiences many hormonal changes, she feels different between the age of 12 and 19. This is when she feels the need for her first soul mate as well. The burden of education grows, as well as the stress of being a teenager, competing with other girls is not easy for every girl in the world. After graduating, she has to get a job in order to support their family and save for her own future.

Battles Women May Face To Lead Them to Destiny
If you are a woman with soft and tender heart and mesmerizing beauty, you may have to face one of these hurdles in your life, but do not worry, as every problem brings an opportunity for you. What may look like suffering in the start could definitely become an everlasting joy for you and your family when you come out of that adversity as a winner.

Staying alive is the biggest battle women have to face in the absence of a man. Having Enough money for the family and kids and dealing with single parenthood is never easy.

Finding something constructive to do in their lives and shine in their careers is the hardest thing for every woman in life. If they cannot find their passion, they cannot make life meaningful. The inner happiness adds to the beauty of a woman.

Raising Children, giving them proper education and good guidance is an uphill task for a woman. It is even difficult for the rural women than women who live in big cities. Paying for husband’s illness and bills, demands courage and self belief.

Women have a major communication issue in their office and professional world, they are sometimes underpaid due to their weak communication skills.

Facing the health issues, illnesses during youth, middle age and in older age is always hard for women. Breast cancer and heart attack are killing hundreds of women daily in the world. Getting older is a challenge when their body catches diseases.

Trying to hold on to a 9 to 5 job and then take care of the family is never easy, this is the God given greatness and bravery in women which enable them for making the ends meet Maintaining their individuality and honoring themselves is a challenge for making strong relationships with peers, parents, bosses and friends. Women have to deal with sexual harassment in the offices and adjust themselves as a feminine in the masculine world.

Balancing her roles as a daughter, mother, sister and wife is a challenge itself for every woman. Especially, the American woman is deeply concerned about money, time management and family health issues in the somewhat messy world these days. 26% women in America are stressed out due to their financial problems and high taxes.

The nature has chosen women to give birth and brightness to their children, every woman has to go through a tough time of pregnancy to give birth to an unborn child. Some women unfortunately lose the battle of their lives due to childbirth complications.

You are a Victory: Principles of Women Empowerment

Women of this nuclear age are much wiser and smarter than they used to be in the ancient times. Now they are flying planes, climbing moutains, doing complex operations and leading he corporate world. They have improved their overall lifestyle and progressed in many fields, but they still have to face some daunting challenges. Everyday becomes a new challenge for working women around he world. These challenges are not meant to just annoy them and make them think why life is bringing them down? They do feel the pain due sickness, poverty issue, death of parents of siblings, lack of economic opportunity, divorce, losing weight, broken relationships, inadequate health, sexual abuse, injustice in the workplace or racial discrimination, the females in every society have to face their struggles and fight every day.

An intelligent woman has to manage her time wisely, she c annot do a million things in 24 hours before she can finally take rest in her bed and think sanely again. Let us see how they can enpower themselves in he face of all these miseries.

For gender equality, the women can try hard and establish a high level of leadership in their organizations to become role models for other men and women in the corporate world.

By treating other men and women equally at work and all the family members equally at home, a woman can get a high level of respect, support and love from each person.

She can enlighten the lives of others with her incredible knowledge and promote education. She can train and develop other women so that they can become a legend in their professions.

Women can take active part in human rights, promote equality through taking positive initiatives in her society.


The Conclusion: These battles can be blessings
International Women’s day is a great occasion to commemorate women’s accomplishments. Women still have to go a long way to live a richer, brighter and happier life in many parts of the world. They need to raise their voice and realize their incredible potential to stand in line with the men. The beauty that comes to the battles of life is that there are hidden blessings in every problem. Women should choose to look at these battles in a positive perspective so that they can accomplish good purposed in life and find the God’s heaven that is in store for them.

“It's hard to be a woman, you must think like a man, act like a lady, look like a young girl and
Work like a horse”

Faisal Sheikh
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