In the last two decades there
is a raise in divorce rate in Pakistan. The main reasons are:
Lack of sacrifice, forced marriages, greed, Joint family system, difference in
social status and one of the main reason highly career oriented women.
Surah Al Baqarah:
''AND IF YOU FEAR THAT THE TWO (I.e) Husband and wife) may not be able to keep
the limits ordered by ALLAH, there is no blame on either of them if she redeems
herself (from marriage tie)
There are situations in which Divorce is the only answer. Divorce is something
which is hated by ALLAH, but it is allowed because there are situations where
divorce is the only option. It is not beneficial to raise children in an
unstable home. Most of the divorces take place due to lack of communication plus
inferiority complex.
With the divorce rate on the increase in Pakistan women becoming increasingly
independent often placing their careers before family and husband.
When you get married you enter into agreement to consider your spouse when
making life changing decisions and your suppose to love them. There are many
people who do(deceive and lie about who they are) Some people are very good at
it and can fool the best of us. So be careful for the wolf in sheeps' and the
ministers" daughter'.
So many women are getting a higher education is one reason the women wants to
achieve more. She wants more education. Younger couples are more likely to get
divorced. Waiting for maturity to set in before tying the knot also seems to
have its own set of problems, as does waiting for Mr right."
According to a survey most of the lawyers acknowledged that divorce rate is
increasing in middle and lower middle class. Financial problems is one of the
big reasons for separations. Normally in lower middle class husbands fail to
fulfil the demands of their wives, which becomes the main reason of dispute.
Joint family system becomes the reason of divorce in which, dispute with mother
in-law is one of the example. Divorce cases are increasing day by day because
women from all segments of society are fully aware of their rights. women want
to follow the lifestyle of modern girls as shown in television that's why they
don't compromise. Family disputes forced marriages and second marriage by
husband are the major reasons of divorce. Most of the women compromise only
because of their children.
One should compromise by compromising means to give up one thing in exchange for
concession of something from the other side. Compromise is the key word to save
your marriage. To save Your marriage, compromise to the changing home
environment.
It is important that both of you have your own style of upbringing, values and
beliefs. Both of you have experienced life in your own perspective till you got
married. It is impossible for both of you to think and do alike in all matters.
Respect each others views and compromise where ever necessary to retain domestic
and mental peace.